My second, first year of marriage was tougher than my first. We tackled three children, jobs, redundancy, study, volunteer work, school, pets and everything else that comes with being responsible adults - and not the 24 year old student I was the first time around.   But we did it with love, gratitude, humour and a smile. Today we celebrate one year gone, and many more to come - and while our outfits, hair, makeup, photography and restaurant table all took a hit, the food at